Generosity of spirit is the energy that you are when you are functioning as all of you, and as an infinite being; it is the gift and the contribution that you can be to yourself, to your body, to the world and to the people around you! Generosity of spirit has an energy of gifting and receiving where you gift an energy or presence, and then you also receive from that gift that you are being.
Generosity of spirit is limitless; there’s an abundance of energy to be, and to gift and to receive.
Be present with THAT energy for a minute. REALLY PRESENT. Limitless, abundance, gifting and receiving simultaneously.
What would THAT be like to experience every day?
Do you think having more generosity of spirit will contribute to you, your body and living orgasmically?!
The answer is YES!! 100x over. So let’s dive a little deeper.
What Does Generosity of Spirit have to do with Orgasmic Living?
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Orgasmic living is an internal personal journey; orgasmic living is the energy of the creation of your life, and the creation of your body which includes generosity of spirit!
For me, I had to play first with these:
- What is orgasmic living for me and for my body?
- What does that look like?
- What would it BE like to always choose orgasmic energies?
I have strengthened this magnificent muscle of living orgasmically; I have fine-tuned my awareness, my attention to the world around me, always seeking those things that bring me joy, pleasure and orgasmic living, and what I found is that I am most orgasmic, and the most joyful and the most ALIVE, when there is this energy of generosity of spirit.
When there is an energy of generosity of spirit it permeates every cell in your body!
As I’ve cultivated my generosity of spirit and orgasmic living, and allowed my attention to be drawn to this specific energy and way of BEING, generosity of spirit and orgasmic living now permeates my whole entire life.
How yummy is that?!
Patty, I don’t know what you’re talking about. Have you always been this way?
The answer is no, this hasn’t always been the case for me. As a matter of fact, I used to be very naive around this particular topic. As a naturally gifting person, I would find myself being very generous with people who actually were more penurious of spirit. There wasn’t a gifting and receiving, it was a give and take. I would give, and they would take, and take, and take.
What is Penurious of Spirit? Penurious of spirit is the opposite of generosity of spirit; the definition of the word penurious is extremely poor, or poverty-stricken.
When you are with someone who is penurious of spirit they are functioning from the energy of lack, from the energy of poverty, from the energy of not enough.
It can be a challenge and uncomfortable if either you or the other person is choosing these energies, as opposed to the generative energy of generosity of spirit.
Because of their lack mentality, their penurious of spirit, they never felt like what I gave was enough.
These types of exchanges began to create this place where I would go into the wrongness of me, where I didn’t think I was enough and nothing I ever gave was enough. In response to so many of these experiences I did the 180 flip and stopped being the generosity of spirit I naturally am.
I didn’t notice until a couple of years after that I had stopped the energy of gifting and receiving that I always had been.
I was energetically contracting and holding back, not allowing myself to be the energy of generosity of spirit.
This choice actually started to physically HURT me. It hurt my heart, it hurt my body and that in itself became a constant contraction and discomfort in my life.
On my journey with orgasmic living I begin picking away at the story that others always take and take, and let it go. Getting RID of the story and the contraction was the only way to move forward. As it dissolved I had to re-learn about being generous, and with who to let myself be full generosity of spirit with.
This is a Journey, Be Patient and Kind to YOU.
This is a journey, an adventure, a re-learning how to truly BE, be YOU. Learning how to occupy the space of YOU.
We must be willing to be aware of other people and what is going to work or not work, and what is going to create more or not create more.
As an innately generous person I realized I cannot cut that energy off from myself anymore because it was not a gift to me! In not being generous with others I also was not being generous with myself.
I had to ask myself:
- If I allow myself to be this energy again, who can I be this with and will it create greater for both of us? (and not leave me depleted!)
- Who are the people I can BE generosity of spirit with? The continuous simultaneous energy of gifting and receiving.
This isn’t about cutting things or people out of your life (although I do recommend that if you are with someone who is not a contribution or unkind).
Sadly there are people that have penurious spirits, and it is okay to be with them or friends with them, but you have to be aware of how much to gift them.
This is a conversation in awareness, a conversation in presence, a conversation about allowing yourself to be who you are!
Being willing to know and be present with and have allowance for the people around you, while knowing how to interact and BE, without diminishing you is paramount!
When I was cutting off my generosity of spirit I was choosing to diminish myself. That was NOT a contribution to anyone, including myself. I now allow myself to BE that energy of gifting and receiving always, just staying present with whether the person I am interacting with at the time can receive this gift, and then allowing myself to be whatever they can receive while not diminishing myself and DEFINITELY not making myself wrong.
Learning what generosity of spirit is for you AND who, what, and where you receive these energies already in your daily life
We’re going to make a couple of lists to start off with, and then we are going to decipher, or get present with, the level of generosity of spirit you have with each thing on the lists.
- Make a list of the energies that are important to you. The energies that you value. The energies that create orgasmic living for YOU. The energies that are a generative contribution! Examples of these energies for me, energies that connect me with the generosity of spirit I am, are kindness, caring, honoring and ease. What are they for you?
- Make a list of all of the people that you have a lot of contact with, or just all of the people in your life, and a list of the places that you often go to, the spaces that you are often in.
Get present with the energy of each of these things. When you think about a particular person, place, space or thing in your life, and you add them to a list, the next step is to look at the energy that comes up when you think about them.
Is the energy between the two of you one of generosity of spirit, or is there perhaps some amount of strange energy of pernurial spirit?
Again, this is not about judging anything or anyone, this is about getting present with WHAT IS for YOU.
All of the places that you go to, whether it’s your grocery store, or where you go workout, or where you go dancing, or where you go to have dinner, get a sense of each. Get a sense if these places and spaces are generative and create ease for you and for your body.
As you practice this home play remind yourself that this is all just information, there’s no right or wrong here, no good or bad, there’s just information.
Example: wow this person is actually a really generative contribution for me, or wow they have a lot of generosity of spirit, I can see how they function from abundance and joy and even though they may have some penurious moments it is not the essence of who they are. Great information.
Same if the information is on the flip side, they are penurious of spirit. Ok, great information again, just need to be present with how much I am gifting and whether or not they can receive it.
These lists have been a big contributor to living orgasmically and regaining my generosity of spirit. They helped me become acutely aware of what energies I require on a daily basis, the energies that are going to contribute to me the most, and the energies I may not choose if I am having a hard day. Have fun with them!
It may seem a bit odd at first, but getting present with EVERYTHING in your life adds consciousness and awareness to EVERYTHING in your life! This is a wonderful PART of the journey with living orgasmically. It is being pragmatic and mindful of YOU and everything in your life so you can choose and be and create EVERYTHING you would like to create, and as always be deliciously orgasmic along the way!
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