Did you know bodies have healing abilities that can facilitate and contribute consciousness and awareness?
This isn’t exactly something we are taught in school, is it? Developing Pole Dancing For Consciousness has created a space for me to dive deeper into the possibilities with bodies in a way that I never expected. As much as I know in this moment, what happened recently at an Access Consciousness 7 Day event in Costa Rica facilitated me into even more awareness. I’d love to tell you what occurred….
We were at the pool one night and I was asked to dance for everyone. I said no at first. Then, I noticed that the energy for a dance was light and expansive so I eventually said yes. I picked a song, put on a shirt and stood there tuning into the energy of what was required in that moment.
The music began to permeate the molecules of my body. Letting go of the mind, allowing my body to lead, I danced by the side of the pool under the moonlight. It was so nurturing and delicious for my body. Seduced by the night air, the water, the music, the energy and the people around me, I found myself slipping seductively into the pool touching and caressing those who were willing to receive.
As I made my way around the pool I could hear someone talking. My body instantly made the demand of total attention. I walked towards him and said “Are you still talking?” As I got close to him I slowly peeled off my shirt. My arm reached around him and my hand touched his back. My body pressed against him and our eyes locked, orgasmically, aggressivley present with each other. Even though my feet could not touch the pool floor, I somehow lead us around the pool. We were conquered to the energy that had been created…Quiet, intense, sexy and indescribable by words alone.
I became aware that everyone had their eyes on us. My body pushed him away and I smiled. Everyone shouted, clapped and laughed. Shocked and in awe, this beautiful man began to shake and release tears from his body. I give him some space to be with what is showing up. Women attempted to comfort him but he did not want to be touched. Eventually, I moved towards him and asked him to look at me. He wouldn’t. I held him from behind and put my hand over his heart. He allowed me to do this. He still couldn’t speak to what had just occurred. I could barely get a sense of what had happened. I was acutely aware of the judgments around me and the shifting of energy. I choose to give him more space and create some space for myself as well.
I made my way to the bar to sit. I lowered my barriers and became present to the energy around me. Eventually, he joined me and told me what he could about what transpired. He said he’d never experienced that kind presence and kindness with a woman. He stated that my body and I were an invitation for him to have more consciousness and that he is forever changed. I wonder what he will demand from the women in his life now…I wonder what contribution that will be to him, everyone around him and to the world.
We facilitate each other and I get that this beautiful, sexy man has received what I knew was possible between a man and a woman. Something occurred that is beyond this reality. I am also forever changed, as I have never experienced this kind of presence with a man before. I am filled with gratitude for his contribution to my world. Over the next few days, he proceeds to show me a reality with men I thought I would never be able to have. He is kind, generous, honoring, funny, smart and a gentleman who is steadfast in his choices. I watch him begin to make choices for himself that will create a different reality for him and those around him.
Our bodies facilitated a healing in that moment that is still unfolding in my Universe. I am curious about what else will show up for me. I am so grateful that our bodies were able to receive each other in this way. What else is possible now that I have never imagined? What will it take for me to continue discovering the endless possibilities of what is being created?
Do you have a healing body? A body that can heal those around just by your very presence? What if you acknowledged this for yourself? What would you life be like in 5 years if you chose to embrace your bodies’ abilities?
Patty Alfonso
Creator Pole Dancing For Consciousness & The Essence of You
Access Consciousness Certified Facilitator
