How to get what you want when you don’t know how to get it!
Do you know you desire something different in your life? Are you aware that there are other possibilities and you’re not quite sure how to create them?
I’ve been seeing this a lot with some of my clients recently. The awareness, longing and desire for something different in their lives coupled with the puzzling feeling of not knowing how to create it.
As Albert Einstein so brilliantly said: “We cannot solve problems with the same thinking used when we created them.”
Doing the same thing over and over again is the very definition of insanity. I believe my friend Albert also coined this phrase! And so, if you’re looking at creating something different in your life, you’ve got to start by making different choices!
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Here are a few easy tips on how to get what you want:
1. Get clear on what you’d like to have in your life!
Look at every area of your life as it is right now. Your relationships, your home life, money flows, your body, your business. Are you truly happy in these areas? Joyful? Excited about getting up in the morning? Does your life make your heart sing?Not so much? Not to worry. We’ve all been there. Moments when life seems to lack luster and joy. If you’re not clear on what you would like to have and create in your life, then life creates itself around you and that is NO fun!
I’d like to quote another amazing person, Nikola Tesla: “If you want to find the secrets of the universe, think in terms of energy, frequency and vibration.”
Let’s play with the energy, shall we?
What are the energies that would light you and your body up? Joy, laughter, fun, vibrancy, luxury, opulence, hedonism, creativity, kindness, orgasmic living? Maybe you’d like more magic and ease? More possibilities and less problems? This one sounds good to me!
What else would you like? Would you like to travel more? Would you like to be surrounded by beautiful things that nurture your body? Would you like generative relationships with people who contribute to your life?
2. Invite these energies into your life every day!
Once you’re clear on the energies you’d like in every area of your life, then you have to invite them to show up!
First, demand. A demand from you to create and have these energies in your life: “I’ll have that now please!”
Then, opening the energies for something new to show up. One of the best ways to invite new energies into your life is to ask questions. When you ask a question without looking for an answer, you open up to more possibilities. Our mind can only create based on what it already knows. When you ask a question, you bypass the mind and step into energetic creation.
My two favorite questions are:
How does it get any better than this?
What else is possible I’ve never even considered?
If you ask these questions without looking for a specific result, you open the doors for new possibilities to show up. Get really curious about what else is possible that you haven’t considered!
And this brings us to the next step…
Make Different Choices!
So, now you’re more clear on what you’d like energetically. You’re making the demand to have it and you’re asking questions. Energies are already shifting and changing even if you can’t “see” it right now.
The invitation for you today is to make that shift in your choices every single day. Even if you only shift by 1% or 10% every day, it is these new choices that will change the trajectory of your life.
If you chose something different every day by at least 10%, how different will your life be in a year’s time?
Choice creates change! Choices creates change!
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Until next time…I’ll see you around the globe!
Patty Alfonso
Creator Pole Dancing For Consciousness™
Access Consciousness® Certified Facilitator
