As an infinite being, you have the amazing capacity to perceive, know, be and receive ALL energies. To tap into orgasmic energy, which is the ability to be present with all sensations and energies, let’s first start with looking at what energies you are not allowing yourself to be and have now. Being inquisitive in this arena is how I ended up deep diving into this topic for the past ten years of my career, and what a journey it has been! It all started when I became aware that there were energies I wasn’t allowing myself to have or be.
Here are some questions for you about this…
- What do you know about this?
- What do you know about stopping yourself?
- What do you know about preventing yourself from experiencing and having orgasmic energies?
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As you start to take a look at this area and get familiar, I’d also like to bring to light one area that we do this, which may not be as obvious. One of the sneaky ways we stop ourselves is by defining energies in general, but specifically as masculine or feminine. We do this ALL the time, and little do we know that it’s been sneaking into our unconsciousness for quite some time, maybe our whole life. Little girls like pink, boys blue. Girls like to play with dolls, boys with trucks and Legos.
How does this play into our adult lives and what the heck does this have to do with refusing energies?
Before running down this road with you all I’d first like to start with making a clear statement: ENERGY does not have a gender; ENERGY is just ENERGY, it is only our definitions that limit energies to specific genders. When we define energy, or really ANYTHING, we are cutting off the possibilities of those energies and all of what is available to us as radiant all-encompassing infinite beings.
Let’s look at some examples of how we might be doing this in our own lives or with the ones we love:
I’m going to list off some energies and as you read, let me know whether you classify energies as predominantly masculine or feminine:
- Joy
- Playful
- Aggressive
- Dominant
- Assertive
- Gentle
- Kind
- Sincere
- Understanding
- Quiet
Now there are some that maybe you consider could go both ways, but there are definitely some that we correlate more to each sex. Does this diminish our ability to be and have and choose our energetic playground toys? The simple answer is yes.
“I’m a female so I can’t be those specific energies because they’re masculine”
“I’m a man and I can’t be feminine energies as that will make me less of a man”
There is also the case of men and women who do have many “characteristics” of the opposite sex that feel like there is something wrong with them and they don’t fit in.
None of this is expansive or empowering, and truth be told they are just blanket ideas from times past that has solidified over us over time. Judgments that haven’t been fully expelled.
- Would you like to have more freedom?
- More Choice?
- More opportunity to be all of you AND have your ORGASMIC energies?
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ALL energies are available to all of us regardless of the gender of our bodies. One of the most important keys to living an orgasmic life is to allow yourself to be any and all energies in any given moment; to allow yourself to be present with those energies no matter what they are and to let go of the definitions and judgments that halt this process.
For the next week, I invite you to start looking at where you stop yourself from being a particular energy.
- Do you allow yourself to be courageous in every moment?
- Do you allow yourself to be fierce like a fire breathing dragon if required?
- Are you willing to be aggressively present with you and your body?
Just notice.
Notice the places and spaces where you are not allowing yourself to be the full expression of the infinite being that you truly are and can be.
As you become more adept at noticing WHERE you stop yourself, or WHAT energies you tend to refuse the next step is to allow yourself the space to choose something different, in that exact moment. Allowing yourself to let go of control, let go of barriers and let go of your judgments.
Let go of how you think you’re supposed to be and allow these new energies to permeate your life and being.
How much more fun and orgasmic could life be?
Last little side note:
Energy is continuously moving and changing – trying to hold onto it is not only futile, but can squish the magical possibilities that are available if you instead chose to be present, in allowance and just ENJOY the experience.
Think of the last time you had an orgasm in bed, either alone or with a partner. Could you have held onto that energy for very long? Or, was it a beautiful wave of energy that invited loss of control in the most delightful way?
Living an Orgasmic joy-filled life isn’t about holding onto the energy of an Orgasm, it’s about opening yourself up to BEING the orgasm, being all energies, gifting and receiving of these energies, having it all, enjoying it and then allowing it all to move through your body and the entirety of your being and releasing it back out into the universe.
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